Friday, January 31, 2020
Is S/He Your Soulmate or Twin Flame?
I get asked this question at least once a day. It seems everyone wants to know if the person they're dating is their soul mate or twin flame, or when they're going to meet such a person. This has become one of the most overused descriptions for a romantic relationship today, and is greatly misunderstood. Why do I say that? For a few reasons.
First, a soul mate can be your best friend, your sister or brother, or anyone else in your life. We travel with soul groups from lifetime to lifetime, taking on different roles with each other in each one. These can be your most challenging relationships as well as your closest ones because from the perspective of our souls, both are beneficial to our soul growth.
Second, twin flames aren't that common, and usually one is in this plane of existence while the other serves as a spirit guide. To exist together in a lifetime is quite rare, though it does happen. And when it does, it's not the easy relationship one imagines it will be.
As one who is in such a relationship (verified by several psychics), I'm going to warn you to be careful of what you wish for because you just might get it. To come together in a romantic relationship in a lifetime, you must first have had a lot of hard experiences and learned a lot of lessons, you've been tested quite a bit and grown tremendously through it. Then your real work begins together and it can tear you apart. These relationships don't always last, and if they do it's because you do the work together.
How do you know? You may never know, or you may feel it at a soul level. I find often that people are attracted to each other in relationships that don't last, but there's a longing that never goes away and there was an instant sense of recognition when they met. This signals someone you've had a connection with in a past life who may be part of your soul group, but in this lifetime was only here as part of your growth lessons.
Or, you may have the strangest but coolest experience you've ever had where you feel the connection literally snap into place as your energy fields seal the connection, which happened to us. Our energy fields become one when we touch, losing their distinction. In our first week together, each time we parted our chakras literally felt like a snap connecting, one at a time, until the final three (5,6 and 7) felt like a zipper being closed on the night we officially became engaged. (Yes, that fast.)
It's been almost 10 years now for us and it's been quite rocky at times, but we're moving forward and continue to learn the lessons and do the deeper work together. But I'll tell you from experience, this is not the easy relationship everyone dreams it will be when they ask if they'll ever meet their soul mate! Quite the opposite.